Hi Kath it won’t seem like a reaction it appears as though he’s cheating/playing you both.
So basically we, (40f) close friends close to a couple of years, we were in a relationship although not identified aˆ“ satisfied each month for a few weeks, spent hours checking to each other, the man explained all their insecurities and weaknesses etc, the chemistry had been incredible.
This present year, he place great attempt, making design in regards to our next & said would like to produce our personal connection authoritative, the guy preferred matrimony, teens, property. You dwell 100kms aside but I was aiming to go on to his village & he was referring to where we might stay.
As soon as I turned 40, he freaked out and dumped me personally over-age distance. It genuinely ended up great upto that morning. Get older hadnaˆ™t occur previous as itaˆ™s only in 2012 we were certified. He or she decided the gap had been 5/6 ages, not just 8.
After he left me, I tried to speak to your but this individual stored they friendly. I initiated email, he or she never ever performed. Subsequently 2 months after split without email, I messaged your after which after a few communications, asked if we could satisfy, the man mentioned he’d but explained the guy going witnessing anyone. This individual said they desired to stop in call. You stay too far aside to bundle into each other.
After 2 more months, I could view he had been online constantly aˆ“ they only messaged me personally before onto it (for a couple of years they merely reading myself over it due move their dyslexia/bad at scanning). I believed he had been texting this model. So I content your saying thanks to him for its happy experiences also to say i possibly couldnaˆ™t stop in get in touch with so I got removing your down social networks so i could move ahead.More